I know the answer!! I just wanna hear what other folks have to say?

Me and this guy use to date 5yrs ago, it didn't work, so we started datin again about 1yr ago, 1 day he told me he was leaving that his kids mom needed him in Va. So I wished him the best. And when he left i had not heard from him no kind of way till about a month ago a mutual friend told me he wanted to write me he is in jail down there in Va. So he wrote he said he needed a friend. It feels like he is trying to use me he could have been keeping in touch when he left dont call me now cuzz u are in trouble call your kids mom to be your friend what do you think?